when you first meet someone, it could be just a casual fling or more serious, should you be upfront and honest about your past sex partners? I was recently im'ing a guy in his later 20's. He wanted to know how many guys ive been with. Offhand I didnt know but gave him a guess of more than 20 men. He was really shocked at the number, very surprised. That many men he says. He told me hes only been with like 3 women. He told me Iam way to experinced, and did not want to hookup. I started thinking for a 36yr old women a stroung sexual appedtite, i didnt think it was alot, and that was a low ball estimate. I then realized a double standard that its ok for men but not ok for women to sleep around. So my question can you be honest or do you lower the number or raise the number? Are you ok with someone who's been with alot of people?

This is an honest Question i've been with women that have steadfastly said that there is no way that they would allow a man to lick her ass. but durring oral if she was going realy good i'd stop moving with her and hold my tongue out still and she would keep rocking her hips up and down. from clit to taint then she'd lift a little to high and my tongue would cross her rose bud. and before long she would be lifting her hips on purpose pushing her bottom on my tongue on purpose. soon after she'd be riding my tongue with her holes and use her fingers on her clit concentrating on putting my tongue against and into her holes both of them. Usualy loving the hell out of having her bottom tongued and licked as much as her pussy! This has happened several times now!

Is this a common thing?
or am i just a lucky man that so far i've found women that like having there ass kissed?

ladys please respond i realy want to know what you like and how much you like it!

okay...O4L in some cases can make your fantasy come true..whether meeting someone so special you marry and live happily ever after or you are gang banged till you pass out....lol Well my fantasy is to be a stripper for 4 ladies. I want to be the center of their attention. I want the ladies to each touch, suck and do whatever they want to me as I work the crowd... Then one woman and I go the extra mile in front of the group while all get to play. Does that sound horrible or fun? I have one volunteer who is a member of this site and I am looking for the other 3. Any one interested? Larry
P.S. If you are going to blast me, be at least a little nice and not so mean. Hopefully your fantasy comes true some day.

If anyone is interested in getting together for a little hot tub fun on Dec 30th im me or email me. Its my boyfriends birthday and i want to find a hotel room for a good get together. The Night involves massages, friends, hot tubbing, and enjoying some good time together. With the holidays and all chances are you already got one reserved.

During our 1st get together, over burgers, we told one another a lot about our desires. One of her numerous revealings: she longed-for sexual activity with a women. She wanted something she experienced only twice in her early days, she simply never had a chance again. Certainly, I said, why not? Afterwards the usual falling in lovemaking activities, including some unbelievable sexual activity, we decided to attempt swinging as a way of allowing her get it on with another women. I asked her if she constituted in having sexual activity with some other adult male. She considered it and said it wasn't her. She needed only me. (A good enough answer at the time.)....Our relationship is entirely about communicating...we discuss everything. As we progressed through with the phases of love, we also attended the Trapeze swing nightclub in Manhattan. She made out with a couple of women, and really enjoyed it. But, to our surprise, we discovered we were both aroused by her being with a different man, and we have been involved with a small number of different couples.....So what does this have to do with love? Sex with other people, we discovered, is only hot, or even fun, if we're connected to one another every moment. Seeing her being pleasured is unbelievably red-hot for me. I love her sexuality. I'm in awe by her sexuality. Occasionally I find like I'm in the presence of a goddess. And this goddess takes her biggest joy in being with me. For both of us, sex with one another is the finest and gets better all the time. Sex with other people makes up additional spiciness. And being with other people has added to our already spicy lovemaking when only with one another. (Which constitutes every night we're together, after about three years.) But it has not been entirely fun....there have been a few bumps on the road, but each one forced us to confront challenges we were stunned to find ourselves dealing with. And to grow together, as well as mature, together....We have discovered ourselves exploring in ways we never imagined possible, or desirous.

I im'd this guy on here today and he really surprised me. . I asked him what he likes and dislikes with sex you know to see if we click. Are they the dominant type, perfer other activities than most others, enjoy talking dirty. The guy basicly says he will do whatever as long as he gets to f-me. I figured maybe hes just a little inexperianced. Far from it. Could this just be a guy thing or something? Are some men just wanting to f someone as long as they get off? I have certain things that gets me hot, i always let my partners know. I figured men are the same way. Maybe I could be wrong.

OK, I have a confession. My very close BFF from highschool, we cajoke about anything together, we hangout, go shopping, and talk about guys. As far as I know we are both straight. Lately however I noticed she likes to touch me more freguently and sometimes jokes about us getting together sleeping with each other. I just figured it was something she was joking about, but its been repeated way to often. I have been exploring my sexual fantasies with guys, but im so straight. I dont think its something I have comfortable with her. Plus we are best friends also. What would happen if things dont work and turn sour, we might not talk to each other after this again. Im so so so confused.

Ever since I met you, I have these sparkles in my eyes. They leave my sight and curve around the dimples of my smile. An unknown battle between fear and fate bounce inside the back of my mind. My spine begins to shake and break from my overstimulated heart beating to the rhythm of the deepest drums. My life is bound beneath the skies and stars. And just like two shooting stars, two single hearts on fire light a single candle. This flame burns within me and I can only find the time to think of you. I'm shaking with every breath I take. And every step I take toward this cliff, brings me closer and closer to you. I can only jump and hope to God I can fly. Otherwise, I'll just drop like a rock. Gradually speeding into the darkest nets of night. I would slowly dissipate in the brewing sands of death. My spirit would cry over my broken and mangled body as the chilled winds carry me away.
So sweep me off my feet sweet angel. Embrace me as I leap. Lets glide inside this blue crystal ball and touch the glassy atmosphere. Allow me to cradle your body in my love lusted arms while I sing in your dreams. The lyrics of your life are linked to my soul like a rusted swing set. Even under hurricane conditions, we will never cease to swing. So hold out your hand and lets run to sea. I'll bring you into a world of fresh air and a misty breeze. A place where only my dreams could ever compose such visions. Sweep me up from the dust sweet angel and I'll teach you how to smile again.

I've seen the suggestion to have a masturbation party several times.

I'm curious just how far you would consider traveling for the party.

Another question just crossed my devious mind.
If someon were to organize an masturbation event, a huge get together - would you try to participate?

If it was to be recorded video and photo would you still be there?

What if everyone was to get a copy of the video and a couple action photos and group photo?

As for me if I could travel less than a day say 500 miles - I'd be there.

Could someone please leave me a message on how to go about attending the boy toy event? I am a young and attractive (30 yr old) new in town and would like to attend. I am interested in joining a couple. I would appreciate any help as they are not answering the number I've been calling after emailing them. I have photos to show those interested and I'm sure you will be impressed. Send me a message directly through here. Appreciate any help.

This is the same guy who stood me up weeks before for someone else. Now for the past couple of weeks hes leaving me these messages like come over and lets work this out. I told him only if he was really sure what this. He then says he has to get offline and he will call me later. A few days go by. Iam thinking this guys got some serious issues to deal with before making promises he cant keep. Iam thinking hes seeing someone from here or another group. I dont care, iam getting tired of being setup to fall on my fat ass! Jeff if your reading this post. Iam through with you setting me up. Dont contact me again. I blocked your im on this site. I refuse to play head games, I dont set guys up like you do women. I was serious about meeting up. Its up to you to cum through, must be just another leason i learned. Anyways good luck to everyone and have a awsome weekend.

Anyone know how to find out the length of time it takes for the Gold Membership to be activated after you pay the fee?

A lot of us adults have some hardcore sexual fantasies. It's not freaky to fantasies about some perverted sexual activity, or forced sex. Just because somebody fantasies about being raped, this does not mean that she or he wishes it to come about in reality.

Most folks start to fantasies about things that they don't want to take place in the real word. There's nothing wrong with that. In your fantasies you should enjoy complete freedom. There's nothing wrong with that, as far as those fantasies stay fantasies. There is no wrong doing and no wrong action and no crime happen, it's just fantasy.

There are other kind of sexy fantasies. These fantasies make a few people to thinking of swinging. In these fantasies people fantasize sexy affairs that can happen in the real world. They picture sex in a lot of different and extremely erotic setting, frequently with multiply sex partners.

A couple could decide to share their fantasies with one another or they may not. This isn't the issue of love or trust, it's just a question of sexual privecy.

All the same if you're a man, and you want your female sex partner enjoy sex the fullest, you should acknowledge her sexy fantasies. If you know her fantasies, you will be able to turn it into reality, you can make it happen.