I chatted with a fellow today that really surprised me. I always ask potential playmates what their sexual likes and dislikes are--to see if we're compatible. Are they dominant in bed, do they like particular activities more than others, do they like to talk dirty....you get the idea.

This gentleman's basic reply with that he'd do whatever I wanted, he just wanted to have sex. I thought maybe he was just inexperienced, but upon further questioning that didn't seem to be the case.

Is this a guy thing? Do some men just want to fuck and don't care how it's gone about, just as long as they get to cum in the end? I have specific things that really turn me on in bed and that I always tell my partners....I just assumed men were the same way. But maybe I'm wrong.