During our 1st get together, over burgers, we told one another a lot about our desires. One of her numerous revealings: she longed-for sexual activity with a women. She wanted something she experienced only twice in her early days, she simply never had a chance again. Certainly, I said, why not? Afterwards the usual falling in lovemaking activities, including some unbelievable sexual activity, we decided to attempt swinging as a way of allowing her get it on with another women. I asked her if she constituted in having sexual activity with some other adult male. She considered it and said it wasn't her. She needed only me. (A good enough answer at the time.)....Our relationship is entirely about communicating...we discuss everything. As we progressed through with the phases of love, we also attended the Trapeze swing nightclub in Manhattan. She made out with a couple of women, and really enjoyed it. But, to our surprise, we discovered we were both aroused by her being with a different man, and we have been involved with a small number of different couples.....So what does this have to do with love? Sex with other people, we discovered, is only hot, or even fun, if we're connected to one another every moment. Seeing her being pleasured is unbelievably red-hot for me. I love her sexuality. I'm in awe by her sexuality. Occasionally I find like I'm in the presence of a goddess. And this goddess takes her biggest joy in being with me. For both of us, sex with one another is the finest and gets better all the time. Sex with other people makes up additional spiciness. And being with other people has added to our already spicy lovemaking when only with one another. (Which constitutes every night we're together, after about three years.) But it has not been entirely fun....there have been a few bumps on the road, but each one forced us to confront challenges we were stunned to find ourselves dealing with. And to grow together, as well as mature, together....We have discovered ourselves exploring in ways we never imagined possible, or desirous.